Tuesday, February 26, 2008

A Quiz, question 2

I know you will know the answer to this one, Qahal -- Eight gold stars at stake (extra because of my extra-long babble before I pose the question).

Here is an article arguing that parents should take their kids to more adult-themed movies (not movies found in the "adult" section; luckily even the author has some boundaries). Why? So they can discover the world of adulthood.

To frame the author's state of mind:
The same Christmas Day, my son, who is in sixth grade, went to see “Charlie Wilson’s War” with his mother and other family members. When he came back he had some hard questions, but they had nothing to do with naked congressmen in hot tubs or cocaine or extramarital dalliances, all of which feature prominently in that movie. “Why did the Russians invade Afghanistan in the first place?” he wanted to know.
Do you know why your son had no questions about nudity, sex, and drugs but was curious about this place called Afganistan? Because he has learned plenty about sex and drugs in all the R-rated movies you have taken him to. Old hat, it's all been normalized in his world. But I digress . . . Back to our author:
It’s appealing in part because it’s a grown-up movie of a kind that used to be more common. It’s brisk, funny and frank about sex and politics, demonstrating the ease and worldliness that are among the most fascinating and mysterious features of adulthood. More so, I suspect, than the nudity, smoking and swearing that are also part of Charlie Wilson’s world.
There it is -- "the ease and worldliness that are among the most fascinating and mysterious features of adulthood" -- that is what you are teaching your kid through these movies. Move over Cosby, we've got a new parenting coach in town.

But now for the quiz question. Our author then says:
Death and sexuality figure in the story, but those themes are handled with such wit and delicacy that “Persepolis” is more likely to inspire interesting conversations than awkward questions or uncomfortable feelings. The same might not be true of “Juno,” the story of a 16-year-old girl’s unintended pregnancy and her entanglement with the couple who want to adopt her baby.

Like other parents I’ve spoken to about it, I wish “Juno” were just a bit less lighthearted about teenage pregnancy, the real social and psychological consequences of which are never quite acknowledged. But the movie’s spirit is sweet and smart and youthful, and the relationships it depicts feel very tender and real. If it provokes you to have that long-dreaded talk with your son or daughter, so much the better. You might have needed to anyway.
Now I have not seen any of the movies he is talking about, so I am not making any judgments about the actual movies, but I do know that Juno is one of the recent mainstream films that is getting huge praise from those pesky pro-lifers and others who care a whole lot about kids. This is the one movie he singled out as inappropriate for kids (he was less harsh on the other movies mentioned; he didn't actually say that kids should not see There Will Be Blood or No Country for Old Men, he just wouldn't advise parents on this decision). Why is it that a man who cheers on the early adultification of children through movies would make sure to smear one adult movie that many of his probable detractors have found to be a good story about life?

Is it:
a) Christians and the like are stupid and have no understanding of what makes a good story
b) When you write for the Times, you are always working the agenda
c) Other (please explain)

Hint: he ends his article by saying: "Some of these films may be too hot or too rough, but for that reason they may also be just right."

1 Comments:

Blogger Qahal said...

Are you sure that Tobias Funke didn't right that article? He can be such a blow hard.

4:57 PM  

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